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Client:  I’m afraid to tell my dad I got cut from the varsity team.

Therapist: Are you fearful of what he’ll do, like hitting you, or do you fear what he’ll say or think?

Client:  I’m worried that he will be disappointed in me.

Therapist: Sounds like you don’t want to make your dad upset because you couldn’t stand that.

Client:  I guess so.

A parent’s opinion of their child can fundamentally impact the child’s opinion of themselves. When a parent disregards a child’s abilities or weaknesses (in this case, the child’s inability to be a star athlete), the parents send the message that the child isn’t good enough. 

A child that is led to believe that they aren’t good enough can become high-risk averse because of their fear of failure. This fear can manifest in the child, limiting their positive risk-taking in the future. They may restrict their choices in relationships, jobs, and adventures out of fear of failure.

Remember, kids, go through stuff too.  

Always be kind!

I appreciate you reading my post, and I hope you will join me in the community that brings awareness to mental health. You will soon discover that you are not alone.

Disclaimer: Social media is not therapy. Everything I share should be viewed as a guide, not an intervention. Everyone is different, and different insights and tools may resonate differently depending on your situation. Take care of your mental health.